1/2 inches lower than stock looks the best IMHO. slamming the car has no purpose. you destroy wheel bearings and axels. bump steer is DANGEROUSLY intense, ball joint want to tee bag you when you sleep.
15 inch wheels and a 1.5 or 2 inch drop on the front and slittle wedge to it (rear a tad higher) is the best look, it has the "i meen business" look to it.

thats was my first se-r. it was on k-sport coilovers (they sucked) with a 2inch drop on b14 se-r wheels (15inch) and BFG g-force tires.