Ok, to clear some confusion.
As for the "switched 12v" I didnt go directly to the battery. I used a "Switched" source that would be on only when the ignition is on. It is just a 12v source.
Also not all relays are the same. The "blue" nissan relays have an open circuit when there is no power. Some have closed with no power.
If you read the instructions for the sumit box (
http://static.summitracing.com/globa...m-830449-1.pdf) It states that "Gray wire will open to ground when rpm is reached" which means it with break the circuit when the rpm is reached. It also states that the "Yellow wire will close when the rpm is reached." Which is what you want.
Ground one side of the solonoid to the block.
The summit box is only "switches" the relay when the rpm is achived. The relay then allows power to pass to the solonoid.
On the top left of the diagram, when curent flows between 1 & 2 of the relay the relay will close (3&4) and let power go directly to the solonoid.