since the DE dist can be used on the VE, this may help. the DE dist has a 4 wire plug out of the distributor in a shielded cable:
-12v=org/blu or pin 47,109,38....on a b13 USDM DE ecu
-ground=blk or pin 48 on a b13 USDM DE ecu
-cyl pulse trigger=blu or pin 22&30 on a b13 USDM DE ecu
-reference trigger=yellow or pin 40&31 on a b13 USDM DE ecu
what kind of standalone are you using? does it have on/off outputs you can activate the solenoids with?
*edit*
i may have the cyl pulse and reference backwards.....dont remember